Focus Wheel
examples from Reston, VA 6/6/09 and Asheville, NC 5/29/09
(from
Connee’s notes, not verbatim)
1.
Outside the vortex statement: I hate it when I
hear this because their loud negativity takes me out of the vortex. You
have power over me, you drag me outside the vortex – no wonder I want to
wrestle you to the ground!
2.
Inside the vortex center statement: I love
maintaining my alignment. You’re just in Step 1, I’m in the vortex, no
problem! I love focusing myself securely in the vortex. “I’m number one in
sales. I’m doing well. I’m focusing on my customers. I take that same
focus and apply it to anything.”
3. They
have the power to focus, just as I do. It’s not my job to get them in the
vortex. I made myself the keeper of their vortex, but they won’t come.
I’ve failed at vortex keeping!
4. New
center of the focus wheel statement: I love maintaining my alignment
regardless of where others are.
5. Matching
focus wheel statements: I can be in the vortex regardless. I am a good
focuser. I like getting the results that match my vibration so I can
learn. I like gaining control of ME, and getting in the vortex. I love the
clarity I am receiving here. I love knowing my prosperity is coming. I
love them sucking me out of the vortex, because it makes me more determined
to stay in. They helped make me #1 because they help me to focus. I am who
I am! One in the vortex is more powerful than a million who are not. I am
just going to watch myself thrive. As I am in alignment, my influence shows
up everywhere!
- Outside the vortex statement: It’s so irritating
that, with ALL I KNOW, I’m not having better success at this!
- Center statement: I love feeling the control of my
focus and being the deliberate creator I came here to be!
- Get on the wheel; slow down so you can get on. Make
statements that you believe on the subject.
- Focus wheel statements: I love having evidence of
my ability to focus. I am a very powerful creator… Abraham: Now you are
off in the bushes, you want to believe it and you have evidence where
you’ve really done it already.
- Guest: Every time I have had a dream, I have called
it in to me. I really do know how… Abraham: that is justification and
just threw you out.
- Things generally go well for me. I’m sharpening my
focus now. I’m still holding my own in this economy. I can feel the
power of my focus. I can feel that I have more stickers out of the vortex
now, but I can work on this one thought at a time. I don’t have to figure
out how to sell the property, just how to get into the vortex!
- The end result you want is getting into the vortex.
You are the creator of you – you are your creator and your creation. You
want to see yourself as a proud and happy creator of magnificent
properties. Others who want what I create are looking for me. I will do
it again and again!
- All things in good time. I’m coming into my
balance. This sticker book is going to work for me.
- When you think, “I’m STUCK with this!” remember
there is an equal and equivalent inside the vortex thought. Take it one
idea at a time.
- When you think, “Hardly anyone has seen it” put a
sticker on the drama page. When you think, “Lazy real estate person!” put
a sticker on the drama page. And say, “Wait a minute, what’s the opposite
of that?”
- My realtor is doing a fabulous job. She is tapped
into great resources that bring buyers and sellers together.
- Do it 100 times a day until it totally flips, and
you WILL get that phone call.
- You’re not yet happy about being in the vortex until
the property sells. The shift in the way you feel HAS to become the
objective. You can’t hang out in the vortex very long without getting
every single thing that you want.
- Do you see why things that work do, and things that
don’t don’t? It all seems simple and obvious from inside the vortex.
1. Guest: I want to
talk about my chronic health condition… Abraham: We are so appreciating
your word chronic. It means a steady condition, easy to observe and
continue in the attraction of it. We want to hit you with the obvious to
us, but startling to many, awareness that a chronic condition is an
indicator of a chronic vibration, a chronic thought. It’s just an indicator
of a chronic belief I keep thinking.
- The wonderful thing about it is that you can find
all of the pieces by looking at how you feel. Esther’s chronic condition
is a shortness of time, and her computer is responding to that. If you
spend more time than you have, you feel the discord. If you breathe more
out than you take in, you won’t get too far. About 10 breaths and you’ll
be dead! [laughter]
- Everything is about in and out. If you look at this
condition as the indicator, notice how it makes you feel. Guest: limited,
vulnerable, tentative, out of control, unstable, powerless. Abraham:
Those are pretty big emotions on a day to day basis. What things were
present leading up to this that made you feel like that already? Guest:
I didn’t care for the person acting like my boss at work… Abraham: That
feels pretty limp in comparison to powerless. It will be something you
were chronically thinking, beating the drum of, that matches this. Look
for the vibrational cause. Make yourself comfortable by treating the
symptoms, but you have to treat the cause.
- Any symptom you have is an indicator. An illness is
just emphasizing the ways you are outside the vortex. Take those thoughts
INTO the vortex, one by one over 30 days and stay more steadily in the
vortex and wellbeing has to happen.
- Feeling wellness is in the vortex. Illness is out
of the vortex. You are moving between the two.
- Ask yourself, is this an in the vortex thought,
conversation, memory? Before you know it, you will soothe the issue.
- Let’s do a focus wheel. What is your out of the
vortex statement? Don’t talk about the indicator, reach for the feeling
issue. Step back one notch and see what the issue is indicating. If you
don’t know it, and change it, it’s getting bigger by Law of Attraction.
You WANT to know it. You can step back from the issue into the cause
easily. Guest: I feel hopelessness. Abraham: I really don’t like this
vulnerable, out of control feeling! Once you get there, you know that you
do want the opposite in equal degree. Your center statement could be – I
love knowing my power! I cannot stand disempowerment. I LOVE knowing my
power! That is where you are headed with your focus wheel. It might take
awhile to get you on the wheel. Reach for things about empowerment that
you already believe.
- I feel better when I meditate, I am able to release
resistance and come into my power. I’m beginning to understand that it is
all about vibration. I am glad to know I can focus on purpose. I don’t
mind indicators that show me how I am vibrating. I understand and get it
that as my vibration shifts, so will the indicators. I am starting to
believe I can shift as I direct my thoughts. I may have had a little
sloppy thinking, but now I have a pointed reason to focus.
- Esther said that she thought it would be better if
she had a tooth fall out every time she had a negative thought, it would
cause her to focus immediately! [laughter]
- I’ve had a wake up call, and I feel more awake now.
I feel excited and exhilarated about what is coming. I love focusing
myself back into my power.
- There, you have soothed your physical condition. A
couple of more focus wheels will help. Don’t mess with the physical
condition; look for what’s bothering you.
- The side effects of drugs are just evidence of where
the vibration of discord squirts out in another way.
- Let’s do another focus wheel. When do you say, “Oh,
boy, does THAT ever bother me!”? What are other things that happen
frequently that bother you. Guest: I feel trapped – I had to move here
to keep my job, for a job I didn’t even really WANT!
- Ok, then, your outside the vortex statement is, “I
hate feeling trapped! It’s just wrong that I would be forced to go to a
place I don’t want to be to do stuff I don’t want to do!”
- The opposite will be your goal post you are aiming
for. The injustice of it has been throwing rockets of desire into your
vortex. What culmination have you been asking for?
- I LOVE my autonomy! I adore my freedom to choose
where and when and what in my life. At the level of your current belief,
that is a pipe dream, too airy fairy. But this is not pretend stuff! The
reason that feels so awful is that this is who you really are. It’s
tearing you apart. Here’s your center statement, “I LOVE my freedom to
CHOOSE!!!
- So make some statements that you believe that match
that.
- Guest: I have freedom on weekends. Abraham:
pretty good, that gets you on the wheel. I did choose to come here. I
could say the word and not be here if I really wanted that. Guest: There
are some things about my job that I like. Abraham: you are looking to
soothe your right to be free. Real freedom is the absence of resistance.
You have been bound by the contradiction in your own vibration. Make
peace with where you are now.
- This is the path of Least Resistance for me right
now. I have some freedom in my job. It’s an easy job. I have leeway to
think more productive thoughts while I am there. There are more positive
aspects than I have been focusing on.
- Beat the drum of “This is a temporary position. I
can choose to move on. As I soften and chill out, I will see more
possibilities for me. I have been holding myself in a tense place.
Freedom is more of a mental game. I have been my own jailer. I have been
holding myself apart from my vortex. I do like to focus. I’ve been
looking at this as all or nothing. I can soften on that. Now I have a
good reason to get hold of a better feeling place. Really, I am free. I
don’t want to be here forever. But I can make the best of it and look for
positive aspects and reap the benefit of that. And when I get into
alignment, I will feel lighter and free-er. My vibration has shifted
already. And so my indicators must shift. I can relax and do this. I
can talk myself into feeling better. I already have! Everything is
shifting. My condition is shifting. My relationships are shifting, my
job is shifting. I like this focusing stuff!!!
1.
Outside the vortex statement to start the focus
wheel: I’m disappointed that I’m not able to maintain my alignment and
focus on who he really is.
2.
Center statement: I want to see the truth of my
brother.
3.
Focus wheel matching statements: My brother is a
very loving man. Yes, that puts you on board!
4.
We’re all doing the best we can. It’s as
upsetting to him as it is to me. I know he wants the best for my father as
I do. I want to know him better. I trust there are solutions in the
vortex. Of course, it is going to turn out all right. He’s teaching ME to
get in the vortex no matter what! He’s keeping his commitment to me to make
me maintain my alignment with Source no matter what he does. I love my
brother. I so appreciate that we are having this step one experience
together. I am learning to maintain my balance no matter what. I so
appreciate that all this has happened! –
Connee’s
notes on Abraham-Hicks, Asheville, NC 5/29/09 – Excerpts on Focus Wheels
- Let life help you identify the issues. What’s
bothering you?
- Outside the vortex statements: My life long friend,
who is out of the vortex, continually drags me out, too. This significant
person, who I am tied to, keeps ripping me out!
- Center statement: I so love maintaining my place in
the vortex, regardless of the conditions.
- Now make 8-12 statements that you already believe
that match the center statement. Your tendency is to match the outside
statement, because law of attraction takes you there. But we want to draw
you IN.
- Focus wheel statements: I love maintaining my
alignment. I am strong when I am in the vortex. I’ve had so many in the
vortex experiences already! I’m a good focuser.. Abraham: that throws
you off in the bushes. Try again.
- Guest: I’m becoming good at feeling shifts in
energy. I can tell when I am in or out. My desire is to be in. I
really, really, really like being in the vortex.
- Being in the vortex matters to me. I deserve to be
in… Abraham: deserving throws you out.
- I like being in the vortex. The more I get in, the
easier it will get. It’s easy to get in when I look straight at something
that feels good. I like taking care of my own vibration. From inside the
vortex, I can radiate wellbeing! I like knowing if I am in or out. I can
focus on a lot of things that DO make me feel good. My dog takes me
easily into the vortex. Nature takes me easily into the vortex. My
nieces take me easily into the vortex.
- It’s screwy to ask someone else to take me in. Now
I can go write to making a list of positive aspects of the dog and nature
and my nieces. Focus on the positive aspects. It’s so fun to focus.
Unconditionally loving feels FREE! No one has to do anything different.
I love being in the vortex. Now all of my relationships will improve.
Through the power of my own mind, I can stay in the vortex. Oh, good!
Now I will look at more things from inside the vortex. My friend looks
entirely different from inside the vortex. They are just in step 1.
Their not being perfect has helped me to train me to stay inside the
vortex. I love you. Thank you! You’ve sharpened my resolve to be inside
the vortex. Thank you! Come on in!!!
- Outside the vortex statement: I fear I am
financially unstable in this economy, I doubt myself.
- Center Statement: Source within me knows all is
well. I know I am secure in all ways. Who I really am is secure.
- Just saying it causes you to resonate with who you
really are. For a moment, it helps you line up.
- Focus wheel statements: I believe in myself.
Abraham: that threw you off in the bushes. Try again.
- I believe in my ability to make money. Abraham:
Bushes!
- I believe in my ability to focus. I believe that my
Inner Being is focused on wellbeing. I believe that my Inner Being has
all the bases covered and I just need to get over there. I know about the
Laws of the Universe. Vibration is the only thing that does matter.
- Search through the hollow words and find the
emotions. Pull the nuggets out by how they feel.
- I’m still employed in an unstable market – good for
me! I’m feeling more appreciation for my work. My desire to excel is
sharpened. We’re all just slowing down and catching our breath. Nothing
really awful is going to happen. We look out for one another. I feel
pretty good where I stand. I have a vibrational nest egg. I always
figure it out. I am an innovative person. I like to be in unknown
territory. This market has the potential to thrill me. These unstable
times expand my escrow. My Inner being is calling me more strongly than
ever before. I like feeling negative emotion, it helps me focus again on
where I really want to go. I’m a good focuser. I can figure this out.
- Now you are feeling entirely differently, even
though nothing has changed except your point of focus. And now you will
get different indicators. You’ll hear different conversations.
Connee’s
notes on Abraham-Hicks, Asheville, NC 5/30/09
- Right now you are doing an anti-focus wheel,
explaining the injustice that has taken place. It doesn’t help you,
ever! There is a vibrational shift you have to make, and so far you are
doing a lousy job of it. By Law of attraction you ARE more likely to
repeat out of vortex statements.
- You want to be blissful, bright, amazing, sharp –
you have created an amazing vortex. Get in it!
- Outside the vortex statement: It SUCKS that
something so awful could have happened to me.
- Opposite statement in the Center: I love knowing my
power and helping my kids know their power.
- Focus wheel statements: I loving coming into my own
power. I want to be tapped in, tuned in and turned on. I love the time I
spend with my children. It will be even better when I am in the vortex
more of the time. I might be making a bigger deal of this than is
necessary. When I am with my kids, we have fun. I have the opportunity
to know my power at a whole new level here and demonstrate it to them.
There is something nice about focusing my time with them into one day a
week. It makes us all more up for it. I care so much more now. I may be
a better father in one day than giving them seven days of an unfocused
father. My children have the opportunity now to learn from two people,
one inside the vortex and one outside. Really, they do have a nice
mother. When they are with me and I am in the vortex, it’s awesome!
Everything I want is actually MORE likely to be accomplished in this new
situation, Abraham told me so! It helps me that they see it, I resonate
with that. I am coming to more knowing through this process! Source
knows I LOVE feeling my power and teaching my children by the clarity of
my example.
- She’s trained you into such contention that you are
even contentious with us! And no one will ever be any more on your side
than we are! You have the right to feel like that. But it’s caused you
to create the wonderful new reality that is in your vibrational escrow,
and you keep arguing for your limitations.
- We know saying positive things about it feels like a
lie for now. We’re not there yet. It’s bouncing you off into the
bushes. The best way to get on is to try again, not to explain how you
got there.
- Esther prepaves her time with her grandchildren so
much, that a day feels like so much more than a day when they are
together. These days are really special, extraordinary time for those
kids. In your strong desire and focus, the actual amount of time is
irrelevant. It’s your “in the vortex time” that makes the difference.
- When you are outside the vortex, telling your kids
you love them, it is a lie. When you have practiced being in the vortex,
the WHOLE of you shows up. When I say “I love you” then, they feel the
fullness of that, it is real! Just being with them doesn’t necessarily
put you in the vortex. You can be with them and complaining about not
being with them and bring in tension and resentment and being sensitive to
the things they tell you.
- More focus wheel statements: I love coming to the
place where I can really show them the depth of my love in the time we
have available. I don’t want them to feel fought over. I want them to
feel unconditional love. You taught me the most important lesson of my
life – I had no choice but to figure out how to get in the vortex even
though these conditions exist.
- Any time you feel negative emotion, you are outside
the vortex. You want to feel as good as you can feel. It’s about
preserving your relationship with you.
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